{"id":6522,"date":"2010-06-17T08:24:55","date_gmt":"2010-06-17T13:24:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/?p=6522"},"modified":"2010-06-17T08:24:55","modified_gmt":"2010-06-17T13:24:55","slug":"because-im-a-blogger-i-must-weigh-in","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/2010\/06\/17\/because-im-a-blogger-i-must-weigh-in\/","title":{"rendered":"Because I&#8217;m A Blogger, I Must Weigh In"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I picked this flyer up at the local library, and I must pontificate upon it because I am a blogger.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/bsgfx\/pregnancy.jpg\" width=\"425\" alt=\"Happy teen pregnancies\"><\/p>\n<p>You know, if you&#8217;re designing a flyer about teenage pregnancy, perhaps you should choose an image aside from one that depicts the pregnant teen and a friend in a mall photo machine smiling.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m just saying.<\/p>\n<p>I understand that the point is that said female with <em>child<\/em> is not alone.  Even her friend who was at the mall with her that day when she would later begin to miss a period after some unprotected loving from the eleventh grader who loved her truly and wrote rhyming poems in pencil to her convinced her they would be together &#8220;forever&#8221; in a time period where &#8220;forever&#8221; meant &#8220;after graduation&#8221; is kinda freaked out by the new revelation that her underage drinking buddy ought to shut it down for a while until the child comes out with fingers instead of flippers.<\/p>\n<p>I feel bad for any young woman who faces pregnancy at a time when some of us are trying to figure out whether <em>Band X<\/em> equals <em>Band Y<\/em> in authenticity or intensity.  But it&#8217;s a damn big decision, and I don&#8217;t think a couple smiling kids atop the flyer captures the weight.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re going to go with a photo at all, maybe someone looking worried or freaked out.  Because having the child is going to lead to a couple months at least of not smiling or sleeping followed by a lifetime of responsibility that will include a lot of joy, but all of it adult joy.  Having the child and putting it up for adoption will lead to a lifetime of wondering and what-iffing.  Aborting the child should lead to a lifetime of guilt and what-iffing.  Regardless of the resources and the choices available, unplanned pregnancy is not a time for smiling.<\/p>\n<p>What a foolish design choice.  A disappointing choice, actually, as it sends a very wrong message about the emotions of the timeframe and underplays the seriousness of the situation.<\/p>\n<p>But I do go on about nothing.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I picked this flyer up at the local library, and I must pontificate upon it because I am a blogger. You know, if you&#8217;re designing a flyer about teenage pregnancy, perhaps you should choose an image aside from one that depicts the pregnant teen and a friend in a mall photo machine smiling. I&#8217;m just [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3334,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6522","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6522","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3334"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6522"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6522\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6528,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6522\/revisions\/6528"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6522"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6522"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6522"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}