{"id":25868,"date":"2020-03-20T12:34:26","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T17:34:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/?p=25868"},"modified":"2021-01-09T05:13:26","modified_gmt":"2021-01-09T11:13:26","slug":"where-do-you-see-yourself-in-five-years-the-business-coach-asked","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/2020\/03\/20\/where-do-you-see-yourself-in-five-years-the-business-coach-asked\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Where do you see yourself in five years?&#8221; the business coach asked."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>She didn&#8217;t ask me; I don&#8217;t have a business or life coach.  She asked this of my beautiful wife the other day, and my wife asked me last night while we watched the sunset.<\/p>\n<p>I remember Joe DuBois asked me that in 1998.  We were standing at the old timey semicircle sink, washing up after a day of running printing presses, and I told him I did not know.  I mean, back then, I was five years out from college, and I told him that I hadn&#8217;t expected to be working as a printing press operator five years from then.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s pretty clear I&#8217;ve never really been much of a planner.  My wife, on the other hand, does, so this question is right in her wheelhouse.  She likes to plan out the week to come on Sunday nights, including the nights we&#8217;re staying in (all of them these days) and what we will eat for each meal.  She likes to get a little more granular than that, but when the week unfolds, something <em>always<\/em> comes up which derails the weekly plan.  Someone has a homework emergency.  Work runs long.  Or something.  These variations stress her out a lot at times, whereas I am able to better go with the flow.<\/p>\n<p>If I skip ahead in five year segments from my conversation with Joe, I would find myself working at an Internet startup that I hoped would make me rich.  Five years later, I had been an Executive and had just struck out on my own as a consultant, but mostly was taking care of my two children.  Five years later, both my kids are in school, and I&#8217;ve taken a contract with another startup that I hoped would make me rich&#8211;my billed income was certainly high, and I thought the sky was the limit (until my accountant calculated the annual tax increase, which sobered things quickly).  I&#8217;d also started training in martial arts after my boys did.  Five years later, my consulting work had gotten stale, and I took a full time position that&#8217;s not as swashbuckling, to say the least, as being an independent contractor.  Five years from then, which is only three years from now, I&#8217;ll have a high school graduate and high school sophomore and&#8230;.  Who knows?<\/p>\n<p>If we reel back in the years in five year increments, we can see what I was blogging about on this day in history.<\/p>\n<p><em>March 20, 2015<\/em><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/2015\/03\/20\/book-report-holiday-memory-by-dylan-thomas-1978\/\" target=\"_new\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Book Report: <em>Holiday Memory<\/em> by Dylan Thomas (1978)<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>March 20, 2010<\/em><br \/>\nNo posts on this date, but a couple on March 21:<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/21\/this-administration-cannot-see-clearly\/\" target=\"_new\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">This Administration Cannot See Clearly<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/21\/charity-founded-by-former-elected-officials-blows-entire-budget-on-overhead-parties\/\" target=\"_new\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Charity Founded By Former Elected Officials Blows Entire Budget On Overhead, Parties<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/21\/an-unfortunate-turn-to-boilerplate-health-care-sob-story\/\" target=\"_new\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">An Unfortunate Turn To Boilerplate Health Care Sob Story<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>March 20, 2005<\/em><br \/>\nNo posts on March 20, 2005, either, which is odd as it was at the height of my blogging.  However, on March 21, I posted:<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/2005\/03\/21\/2070\/\" target=\"_new\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Book Report: <em>Duty: A Father, His Son, and the Man Who Won the War<\/em> by Bob Greene (2000)<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/2005\/03\/21\/2071\/\" target=\"_new\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Dogs That Didn\u2019t Bark<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/2005\/03\/21\/2072\/\" target=\"_new\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Collateral Damage Audience<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/2005\/03\/21\/2073\/\" target=\"_new\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Post-Dispatch<\/em> Gets It Right In Sidebar<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/2005\/03\/21\/2074\/\" target=\"_new\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">But There Won\u2019t Be Smoking Allowed<\/a><\/p>\n<p>To be honest, that&#8217;s what the blog is really about: Giving me the ability to go back to a point in time and see what was going on in the world and in my life at the time.  You, gentle reader, are just along for the slow-moving ride.<\/p>\n<p>And where ever I am five years from now, I&#8217;ll know how I got there.  But I&#8217;m not sure where that is, nor am I sure where I would want that to be.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She didn&#8217;t ask me; I don&#8217;t have a business or life coach. She asked this of my beautiful wife the other day, and my wife asked me last night while we watched the sunset. I remember Joe DuBois asked me that in 1998. 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