{"id":25360,"date":"2019-12-05T08:14:21","date_gmt":"2019-12-05T14:14:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/?p=25360"},"modified":"2019-12-04T12:37:53","modified_gmt":"2019-12-04T18:37:53","slug":"the-poignancy-of-growing-children-and-the-dangers-of-poignant-photos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/2019\/12\/05\/the-poignancy-of-growing-children-and-the-dangers-of-poignant-photos\/","title":{"rendered":"The Poignancy Of Growing Children and the Dangers of Poignant Photos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So my boys&#8217; school has a program that pairs kids from higher grades with kids from lower grades for a bit of story time and crafts.  The program is called Big Friend\/Little Friend.<\/p>\n<p>So one of the the Christmas projects is a candle holder wherein the urchins paste some tissue paper squares on glass.<\/p>\n<p>In his 2nd grade year, he made a little one when he was a little friend.  We put it on the little mirror shelf that is the only real repository for knick-knacks and figurines at Nogglestead.  It&#8217;s been up there ever since with a collection of little candles we&#8217;ve acquired in various places.<\/p>\n<p>Now, in his 6th grade year, he&#8217;s on the Big Friend side of the equation, and he made another with his Little Friend.  However, as he was older, he grabbed a Mason jar instead of a little votive.<\/p>\n<p>I thought it would make a poignant photo of how the boys are growing.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/bsgfx\/bigfriendlittlefriend.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p>I was going to end with a quip about how I hope the youngest does not expect the Mason jar to go on display as well, but in picking up the small votive, <em>it broke<\/em>.  I have picked it up to dust it once or twice in the last four years (maybe three times), but when I grasped it by the lip of the votive, the glass broke and was only held together by the tissue paper.  So even the small votive won&#8217;t be on display.  <\/p>\n<p>So, suddenly, we&#8217;ve gotten a different life lesson from this act of photography.  I&#8217;m not sure what it is.  <em>Tempus Fugit<\/em>, and whatever the Latin is for &#8220;sometimes in setting up the artifice of a photo to illustrate life lessons on my little-read blog creates its own bad lessons.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So my boys&#8217; school has a program that pairs kids from higher grades with kids from lower grades for a bit of story time and crafts. The program is called Big Friend\/Little Friend. So one of the the Christmas projects is a candle holder wherein the urchins paste some tissue paper squares on glass. In [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3334,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25360","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25360","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3334"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25360"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25360\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25364,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25360\/revisions\/25364"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25360"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25360"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25360"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}