{"id":10640,"date":"2011-12-17T08:36:22","date_gmt":"2011-12-17T14:36:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/?p=10640"},"modified":"2018-02-01T15:13:19","modified_gmt":"2018-02-01T21:13:19","slug":"book-review-love-and-marriage-by-bill-cosby-1989","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/2011\/12\/17\/book-review-love-and-marriage-by-bill-cosby-1989\/","title":{"rendered":"Book Review: <i>Love and Marriage<\/i> by Bill Cosby (1989)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0553284673\/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&#038;tag=stlbrianj-20&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=9325&#038;creativeASIN=0553284673\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/bsgfx\/loveandmarriage.jpg\" width=\"100\" alt=\"Book cover\" align=\"left\" hspace=\"4\"><\/a>Sadly, it&#8217;s not uncommon for me to accidentally re-read a book I&#8217;ve already read if I buy it again, but <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0553284673\/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&#038;tag=stlbrianj-20&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=9325&#038;creativeASIN=0553284673\" target=\"_blank\">this book<\/a> presents a special case.  I did not even choose to read it.  Well, not exactly.  <\/p>\n<p>As is my wont, I keep a book of short pieces, columns, and whatnot at the bed side so I can read in 600- or 1000-word increments until I am ready to sleep.  It&#8217;s also not uncommon for me to bring a book up, brush my teeth, and determine that I am too tired to read after all, so a book will sit on the headboard until the next such time I want to read in bed, which can be a week or two later.<\/p>\n<p>So, anyway, one night, the book was there, I was there, so I started reading it.  Little did I know that it was my beautiful wife who brought it up so <em>she could read it<\/em>, but in the time between when she brought it up and I discovered it, the headboard book shuffling that occurs during dusting had put it onto <em>my<\/em> stack of books.  So this might be the very first time that I&#8217;ve re-read a book accidentally in this fashion, although now that my wife knows I can fall for this sort of trickery, I might start finding other books <em>she<\/em> wants me to read on the headboard.<\/p>\n<p>So my reflections on the book closely mirror <a href=\"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/2004\/07\/01\/1103\/\" target=\"_blank\">what I said in 2004<\/a>: the book is bifurcated into a part about adolescent love, which is spot-on and amusing, and the second part is about being married to his wife which focuses on the nitpicky little ways they get on each other&#8217;s nerves.  Maybe those moments make for the best comic recounting, but as for a book that <em>celebrates<\/em> marriage, they really give short shrift to the basic daily comfort of having a life partner and the joys that surpass the general contentment of a good marriage.  That&#8217;s, again, probably just because the comedian has to focus on the disparaties, but it doesn&#8217;t serve as encouragment to wed.<\/p>\n<p>Not the best Cosby book, but I still love the man and his work.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sadly, it&#8217;s not uncommon for me to accidentally re-read a book I&#8217;ve already read if I buy it again, but this book presents a special case. I did not even choose to read it. Well, not exactly. As is my wont, I keep a book of short pieces, columns, and whatnot at the bed side [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3334,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20,11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10640","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-book-report","category-books"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10640","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3334"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10640"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10640\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19375,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10640\/revisions\/19375"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10640"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10640"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brianjnoggle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10640"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}